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跟你的孩子谈论性是不舒服的。这并不容易。对大多数父母来说，“鸟和蜜蜂”的谈话是他们所害怕的。然而，花点时间想想如果你的孩子没有收到你的信，他会学到什么。有了艾滋病、性病、怀孕，以及性世界的所有陷阱，对青少年进行有关性的教育是很重要的，而不仅仅是关于禁欲。大多数基督教青少年可能听说过，他们需要戒除性行为，因为圣经告诉他们。这就够了吗？统计数字告诉我们，基督徒父母应该做什么？圣经并没有谴责性。事实上，所罗门的歌告诉我们性是美好的。然而，当我们决定**的时候，就是这个问题。对“谈话”感到紧张是可以的，但是不要太紧张，以至于你的孩子认为性是坏事。不是，所以深呼吸一下。谈论性的话题时，如果认为你的孩子没有生活在信息时代，你的话题就会显得过时，失去优势。要知道你的孩子可能每天都接触大量的性信息。网络上有广告。性几乎是商店里每一本杂志的封面。学校里的男孩和女孩很可能经常谈论它。在你和你的孩子坐下来之前，环顾四周。你的孩子可能不像你想的那样受到庇护。避免谈论性的方式，假设你的孩子没有做任何事情。虽然每位父母都希望自己的孩子从来没有想过性，亲吻过别人，甚至更进一步，但事实可能并非如此，这可能会让你十几岁的孩子感到厌烦。你的信念很重要，你的孩子需要倾听你的想法，而不是别人的想法。在你和十几岁的孩子坐下来之前，仔细想想你对性的看法，这样你就知道什么对你很重要。在和孩子坐下来之前，先阅读圣经，做一下调查，因为了解上帝在这个问题上要说的话也很重要。知道你如何定义性和你认为太过分了。你可能会被问到。许多基督徒的父母并不完美，许多人没有等到结婚发生性行为。有些人有过一些性创伤经历，有些则有很多**。不要掩饰你在想谁，如果你告诉他们真相，你的孩子将无法尊重你的意见。如果你有过性行为，解释一下这就是为什么你知道最好等待。如果你在结婚前就怀孕了，解释一下为什么这意味着你明白节欲和安全性行为的重要性。你的经历比你想象的更有价值。
英国兰卡斯特大学Essay代写：孩子的教育
It’s uncomfortable talking about sex with your children. It’s not easy. For most parents, “bird and bee” conversation is what they fear. However, take some time to think about what your child will learn if he doesn’t receive your letter. With AIDS, STDs, pregnancy, and all the traps of the sex world, it is important to educate adolescents about sex, not just about abstinence. Most Christian teenagers may have heard that they need to abstain from sex because the Bible tells them. Is that enough? Statistics tell us what Christian parents should do? The Bible is not condemning. In fact, Solomon’s song tells us that sex is good. However, when we decide to have sex, that’s the problem. It’s okay to be nervous about talking, but don’t be so nervous that your child thinks sex is a bad thing. No, so take a deep breath. When talking about sex, if you think your child is not living in the information age, your topic will become outdated and lose its advantage. Know that your child may be exposed to a lot of sexual information every day. There are advertisements on the internet. Sex is the cover of almost every magazine in the store. Boys and girls in school probably talk about it a lot. Look around before you and your child sit down. Your child may not be sheltered as you think. Avoid talking about sex in a way that assumes your child hasn’t done anything. Although every parent wants his or her child to never think about sex, kiss someone else, or go any further, that may not be the case, which may bore your teenager. Your beliefs are important. Your children need to listen to your ideas, not others. Before you sit down with a teenager, think carefully about what you think about sex, so that you know what’s important to you. Before sitting down with your child, read the Bible and do some research, because it’s also important to know what God wants to say on this issue. Knowing how you define and what you think is too much. You may be asked. Many Christian parents are not perfect, and many do not wait for marriage to have sex. Some people have experienced some sexual trauma, while others have many sexual partners. Don’t hide who you are thinking. If you tell them the truth, your children will not respect your opinion. If you have had sex, explain why you know it’s best to wait. If you are pregnant before you get married, explain why this means that you understand the importance of abstinence and safe sex. Your experience is more valuable than you think.
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